Today again is the First day of yet another year. What makes me say that well we all get up from the bed looking forward to change everything and make a fresh new start or beginning this new year. All of us sleep of the last year for the future ahead looking for a change or a resolution anything.
Me too follow the crowd ... like most of us i too woke up for the big day.. the first day of the new year. But when i opened my eyes n turned around i found this handsome man lying next to me and still half asleep whispering those three words since last 7 seven years which has been an daily early morning routine. I than get up and see my face in the mirrior and I think do I really want anything to change??????
Husband And Wife
With You Forever
Saturday, January 1, 2011
Friday, December 31, 2010
Last Day Of The Year
Haa.........
Last day of this year the big 2010 is done and will be a talk of passee soon. And with all becoming history we all yet again just sit down thinking what we are going to do the next big year that is going to bring us all the love, material and achievements that we have been longing.
Thinking about that do we really spend time remembering all the happy moments that 2010 gave us like a friends wonderful wedding, birthdays and gifts, instead we just sit down calculating what we have not achieved and earned that makes us still very incomplete. The so called " New Year Resolution".
My friend took the resolution last year of giving up smoking but ofcourse this year too the resolution is the same. Most important is why make unrealistic resolution and that to time bond , don't we loose the focus of our goal or aim. I know how hard he tried to quit but than accept it that it is going to take time.
My resolution this year is to be happy and stay that way for years what is yours?????
Last day of this year the big 2010 is done and will be a talk of passee soon. And with all becoming history we all yet again just sit down thinking what we are going to do the next big year that is going to bring us all the love, material and achievements that we have been longing.
Thinking about that do we really spend time remembering all the happy moments that 2010 gave us like a friends wonderful wedding, birthdays and gifts, instead we just sit down calculating what we have not achieved and earned that makes us still very incomplete. The so called " New Year Resolution".
My friend took the resolution last year of giving up smoking but ofcourse this year too the resolution is the same. Most important is why make unrealistic resolution and that to time bond , don't we loose the focus of our goal or aim. I know how hard he tried to quit but than accept it that it is going to take time.
My resolution this year is to be happy and stay that way for years what is yours?????
Monday, December 20, 2010
Compatibility
I can bet a hundred percent on how much we want to know about our compatibilty with a friend, spouce or some one we are in serious relationship with??????. Though we call crap and ignor those pop up messages on our cell phones or social sites asking to know the compatibilty with our dear ones we must admit that we have definatly tried owning it through those mediums only at least ones.
Do those couple of questions or letters and words prove our compatibility ratio?. Some horrifing results take us to a doubt of our exiting relationships too. So am forced to ask if they are 100% right???????
To me the real compatibilty lies in our day to day routine. How the person knows how much sugar we take in our tea, understands us without mentioning our needs and calls when we are just thinking about them. All these is the result of faith, tryst and love that we put in our relationship and does not need any marketing gimmicks to certify or confuse us.
Do those couple of questions or letters and words prove our compatibility ratio?. Some horrifing results take us to a doubt of our exiting relationships too. So am forced to ask if they are 100% right???????
To me the real compatibilty lies in our day to day routine. How the person knows how much sugar we take in our tea, understands us without mentioning our needs and calls when we are just thinking about them. All these is the result of faith, tryst and love that we put in our relationship and does not need any marketing gimmicks to certify or confuse us.
Sunday, December 19, 2010
GRANT ME MY WISH
Sunday, December 19, 2010
GRANT ME MY WISH
Have you all ever thought of writing a letter not to a friend or relative to some spirit which could all ease our troubles and worries and get those things which we badly want that our friends have and that our parents cant afford to get.
Could be our favourite God or Fairies or Santa.
I know all that is non existent but than for some reason the belief is still there in me. Heart in Heart when some thing goes wrong or is desirable i think we all secretly wish and ask the same from the holy idols we believe in. And often its gained.
How as a kid i use to wish to find A Gennie or a Magical Fairy to be there only for me and change my world into a whole new world..... Those dreams or likings have not demolished yet only that today as an adult i know that there can not be and never be any fairies or gennies to creat the magical world but still there are few nights when i wish and pray to all those holy spirits to stand up for me and ease my worry and pain.
And sometimes there is our family and friends who stand by us to be our bone taking the form of those angels and fairies that we always went searching.
Could be our favourite God or Fairies or Santa.
How as a kid i use to wish to find A Gennie or a Magical Fairy to be there only for me and change my world into a whole new world..... Those dreams or likings have not demolished yet only that today as an adult i know that there can not be and never be any fairies or gennies to creat the magical world but still there are few nights when i wish and pray to all those holy spirits to stand up for me and ease my worry and pain.
And sometimes there is our family and friends who stand by us to be our bone taking the form of those angels and fairies that we always went searching.
GRANT ME MY WISH
Have you all ever thought of writing a letter not to a friend or relative to some spirit which could all ease our troubles and worries and get those things which we badly want that our friends have and that our parents cant afford to get.
Could be our favourite God or Fairies or Santa.
I know all that is non existent but than for some reason the belief is still there in me. Heart in Heart when some thing goes wrong or is desirable i think we all secretly wish and ask the same from the holy idols we believe in. And often its gained.
How as a kid i use to wish to find A Gennie or a Magical Fairy to be there only for me and change my world into a whole new world..... Those dreams or likings have not demolished yet only that today as an adult i know that there can not be and never be any fairies or gennies to creat the magical world but still there are few nights when i wish and pray to all those holy spirits to stand up for me and ease my worry and pain.
And sometimes there is our family and friends who stand by us to be our bone taking the form of those angels and fairies that we always went searching.
Could be our favourite God or Fairies or Santa.
How as a kid i use to wish to find A Gennie or a Magical Fairy to be there only for me and change my world into a whole new world..... Those dreams or likings have not demolished yet only that today as an adult i know that there can not be and never be any fairies or gennies to creat the magical world but still there are few nights when i wish and pray to all those holy spirits to stand up for me and ease my worry and pain.
And sometimes there is our family and friends who stand by us to be our bone taking the form of those angels and fairies that we always went searching.
Thursday, December 16, 2010
HUSBAND N WIFE
Ever thought how lovely the term Husband and Wife t the when coming out of a newly married couple or to be married couple. All the dreams, aspirations and love mixed and demonstrated in these words MAN N WIFE.
After an year of marriage...... it changes to adjustments and compatibility.
After 5 Years: It changes to ego and self respect which continues for a decade or two.
IF HAVE SUSTAINED ALL THAT THAN
After 15years: Going on only for the kids.
AND
After 35years: Only for your dad or mom.
After 45 years of marriage crossing the road holding each others hand, sipping morning and evening coup of tea together, giggling and smiling looking at the old photo albums and cracking jokes on the early days memories and incidents.
And It goes back again to the feelings of announcing the term Husband And Wife but this time its not spoken but only felt and lived.
After an year of marriage...... it changes to adjustments and compatibility.
After 5 Years: It changes to ego and self respect which continues for a decade or two.
IF HAVE SUSTAINED ALL THAT THAN
After 15years: Going on only for the kids.
AND
After 35years: Only for your dad or mom.
After 45 years of marriage crossing the road holding each others hand, sipping morning and evening coup of tea together, giggling and smiling looking at the old photo albums and cracking jokes on the early days memories and incidents.
And It goes back again to the feelings of announcing the term Husband And Wife but this time its not spoken but only felt and lived.
Wednesday, December 15, 2010
Human to Being Parents
Well well donot really want to take a psychology or biology class here... but the idea is just to think once about the life we lived in the past and the one we live today.......
Being a mom of a 5year old makes me relive the time and age of a 5 year old myself. So many times i have felt that there are certain things which my daughter acts or does are signs of ill manner or behaviour which should not be accepted and hence should be treated accordingly.
This was untill today when we sat down to do a craft project asked by the school ( did i mention that it was real short notice which brought panick within myself and already made me half cranky ). As we progressed from half cranky i became a complete crank nut. And as i was about to just shut everything half way she so sweetly said: " Its ok Mom, You must be tired with whole days work. I shall tell Ma'am that we would submit some other day."
I was so moved that i finished the craft with more speed and pleasure than ever. The feeling of being a mother had sparked from being a human.
If you have any such experiences that you could share please post to keep ourselves reminded of being super parents of highly gifted children.
Being a mom of a 5year old makes me relive the time and age of a 5 year old myself. So many times i have felt that there are certain things which my daughter acts or does are signs of ill manner or behaviour which should not be accepted and hence should be treated accordingly.
This was untill today when we sat down to do a craft project asked by the school ( did i mention that it was real short notice which brought panick within myself and already made me half cranky ). As we progressed from half cranky i became a complete crank nut. And as i was about to just shut everything half way she so sweetly said: " Its ok Mom, You must be tired with whole days work. I shall tell Ma'am that we would submit some other day."
I was so moved that i finished the craft with more speed and pleasure than ever. The feeling of being a mother had sparked from being a human.
If you have any such experiences that you could share please post to keep ourselves reminded of being super parents of highly gifted children.
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